Most times we blame people for the things in our lives that is going wrong without realizing that whatever we are experiencing, we one way or the other welcomed it, nurtured and accepted it.
For instance, if you accept it is good to be beaten up by your hubby, you end up with that. You wouldn't end up with it if you made him understand the things you can condone in the relationship.
Most times people make a mistake of putting up with whatever that comes their way even those that are below the standards of God for their life with the concept that they will change the person. Have you ever checked how hard it is to change a bad character?? What makes you think you can easily change another person??
Be careful of what your mind tells you, that out can put up with. At the end, we will either rejoice over the choices we ended up with or we regret them.
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